Valentines Day gifts – cynicism or joy?

When I rang a friend last night and asked whether they had celebrated Valentine’s Day, she responded “I never do, its too commercialised”. Earlier in the day, walking through the shopping center I noticed roses were three times the price and I found myself shaking my head going “tsk, tsk”. 

Valentine’s Day dates back to Roman Times and although there is confusion as to its exact origins it has always been a celebration where men or women were free to declare their affections for someone special.  It’s so easy to get cynical and ignore the simple rituals that remind us that we are loved and do love. 

I woke Valentine’s morning feeling grim with a stomach bug; in addition my husband’s father passed away less than two weeks ago, so I almost felt justified in not celebrating. Some years I have shamefully forgone celebration with less excuse – “too commercialised – he knows I love him”. However our 8 year old came home with a beautiful handmade card from school and wanted to know how we were going to celebrate. The previous year we had some great fun sending dad on a valentine day’s treasure hunt. I asked her if I could leave it to her as I was feeling a bit grim, however I would contribute some nice Valentines Day chocolates (nothing special, just a packet of our favourites). Within a short space of time the table was set as follows.

 

She had me dim the lights before dad came home and big shouts of “Surprise!” as he walked in. He was rather touched if a little embarrassed as he had forgotten. Hugs all round. After a simple meal we all ate the Valentine’s Day chocolates with gusto. Feeling unwell, I even had one, two, three okay.. four chocolates.

Thank goodness for kids, they remind us that things can be done simply, with joy, making special memories.

Go hug your loved ones and create a joyous fun reality.

Regards Des